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In harmony with the statement found at Numbers 12:3, Moses must truly have been ‘the humblest man on the earth,’ because we actually know very little about him and his personal life. We know that he was married to a Midianite woman named Zipporah (the daughter of Jethro), and that he had at least two sons by her, Gersam and EliEzer. So, it comes as no surprise that there is quite a bit of controversy about the exact reason why Miriam and Aaron were so upset over Moses’ wife, who the account at Numbers 12:1 describes as an ‘Ethiopian woman.’ Was this Zipporah, or did he take another wife? And if it was another wife, what happened to Zipporah?

Unfortunately, we don’t know for sure, because the Bible simply doesn’t tell us. However, according to the WTS, this was Zipporah, and calling her an ‘Ethiopian’ wasn’t unusual, because people who lived in the Arabian Peninsula were referred to at the time as Ethiopians.

I question this conclusion and suspect that WTS writers were more interested in clearing any questions that might reflect poorly on Moses’ name than in looking at the matter objectively.

Since Moses had been married to Zipporah for at least sixty years prior to the Israelite’s second year in the desert, it seems unlikely that Miriam and Aaron would suddenly turn against Moses and start condemning him over this. Rather, the fact that they started questioning his right to represent God at that late date (after Zipporah was likely a great grandmother), indicates that this marriage was something that had happened more recently. Otherwise, the actions by Miriam and Aaron simply make no sense at all.

Also, the fact that Zipporah was one of the Midianites, who were descendants of Abraham (see Genesis 25:1) and close relatives of the Israelites, makes it very hard to believe that the Bible writer would refer to her as an Ethiopian, because they are an entirely different race that descended from Noah’s son Ham (see Genesis 10:7).

Actually, Ethiopia is a Greek word, so it stems from a time well after Moses (to about the Third Century C.E.), and it means The Land of the Blacks. Also notice that the Hebrew text doesn’t call her an Ethiopian but a Cushite (a descendant of Cush or a black person). So the term indicates that he had married a new wife, who was from a land of black people (not from the area of the olive-skinned descendants of Abraham).

Then why was Miriam particularly upset? Well, she was Moses’ older sister (likely the one who followed him as a baby and spoke to Pharaoh’s daughter), so she was probably very protective. Also, the woman he married wasn’t an Israelite, and her skin may have been much darker than that of others in the camp, so there could have been some racism involved.

Then what happened to Zipporah? The Bible just doesn’t tell us. Had Zipporah died; had she left Moses; or had he taken a second wife? Again, we just don’t know. However, just look at the mathematics: Moses married Zipporah when he was forty years old, so she was at least twenty years old (and likely older) at the time she was married. Then forty years later (when she was over 60), Moses went before Pharaoh and led the Israelites out of Egypt. Thereafter, Israel wandered in the desert for some forty years.

Now, we don’t know exactly when the problem arose over Moses wife, but let’s say it was ten years before Israel entered the promised land; so if Zipporah was still alive, she would have been more than ninety years old! And since Moses himself said that the average life span at the time was seventy or eighty, we would have to assume that she had died prior to this second marriage of Moses, which proved so objectionable to his brother and sister.
Very enlightening and thought provoking!! :read:

Makes sense to me. Thats something I had'nt thought about before.

Thanks for sharing! :clap:

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Jayme :friends:
I would have thought it was Zipporah. Here's the reason why. The account is a bit sketchy but on the way back to Egypt, Zipporah and their two sons accompanied Moses part way and there was that circumcision incident on the road.

From the whole context I gather that Moses sent his wife and sons back to his father-in-law, Jethro, while he carried out his God-given mission of leading his people out of Egypt.

Later on the scriptures tell us that Jethro brought Zipporah and the two sons to meet Moses in the wilderness.

"Now Jeth′ro the priest of Mid′i·an, Moses’ father-in-law, got to hear about all that God had done for Moses and for Israel his people, how Jehovah had brought Israel out of Egypt. 2 So Jeth′ro, Moses’ father-in-law, took Zip·po′rah, Moses’ wife, after the sending of her away, 3 and her two sons, the name of one of whom was Ger′shom, “because,” he said, “an alien resident I have come to be in a foreign land”; 4 and the name of the other was E·li·e′zer, “because,” to quote him, “the God of my father is my helper in that he delivered me from Phar′aoh’s sword.” 5 So Jeth′ro, Moses’ father-in-law, and his sons and his wife came to Moses into the wilderness where he was camping, at the mountain of the [true] God. 6 Then he sent word to Moses: “I, your father-in-law, Jeth′ro, am come to you, and also your wife and her two sons with her.” 7 At once Moses went on out to meet his father-in-law, and he proceeded to prostrate himself and to kiss him; and they each one began asking how the other was getting along. After that they went into the tent. 8 And Moses went to relating to his father-in-law all that Jehovah had done to Phar′aoh and Egypt on account of Israel, and all the hardship that had befallen them in the way, and yet Jehovah was delivering them. 9 Then Jeth′ro felt glad over all the good that Jehovah had done for Israel in that he had delivered them from the hand of Egypt. 10 Consequently Jeth′ro said: “Blessed be Jehovah, who has delivered YOU from the hand of Egypt and from the hand of Phar′aoh, and who has delivered the people from under the hand of Egypt. 11 Now I do know that Jehovah is greater than all the [other] gods by reason of this affair in which they acted presumptuously against them.” 12 Then Jeth′ro, Moses’ father-in-law, took a burnt offering and sacrifices for God; and Aaron and all the older men of Israel came to eat bread with Moses’ father-in-law, before the [true] God." -- Exodus 18:1-12

Then follows the account of Moses' father-in-law giving him advice on how to judge the people without burning himself out. Then the scripture says that Jethro returned home. There is no mention of him taking Zipporah or the two boys back with him.

Could the confusion be the result of a lost idiom or a case of racism and jealousy on the part of Miriam and Aaron? Zipporah was an outdoorsy sort, having been a shepherdess all her life. Perhaps her skin was very dark as a result. Miriam and Aaron had not gotten to know her until her father Jethro brought Zipporah and the boys to meet Moses. Perhaps Moses' sister and brother never did like her and the excuse to act on the dislike didn't present itself until later.

Just thought you might like an alternative possibility.

love,
Rez::giverose:
Yes, all was a bit strange then, but she was so old by the time Miriam and Aaron were having their problems, you would wonder why they were suddenly concerned.
If this were a different wife, then being Cushite she may have been one of the "vast mixed company" joining the Hebrews in the Exodus.

Jehovah had sent Moses to bring out His people - they might feel jealous over a non-Hebrew taking so prominent a position, and since a poor opinion would reflect on Moses immediate relatives that might explain Aaron and Miriam's reaction (odd that Moses' two sons don't say anything... were they there?)

If it were a different wife it could so easily be a prophetic pattern for our Lord's bride class from God's (mostly non-Jewish) Christian era. It would also show 1500 years in advance that the Messiah's message of God's Christian stepping-stone in our recovery would be rejected by the traditionalists -after all, Jehovah requested of Moses a number of times:

      11 How long will this people treat Me without respect, and how long will they not put faith in Me for all the signs that I performed in among them? 12 Let Me strike them with pestilence and drive them away, and let Me make you a nation greater and mightier than they are.
        --- Numbers 14:11-12
Moses would have been aware of the promise through Abraham - and worried, as he said, abouth the reputation of God in the eyes of Egypt, and how he (Moses) would clear out the promised land by himself - his faith aside, these things would have gone through his mind. But who knows what our Lord will produce with his bride class, greater than what came before.

A few thoughts

Acts5v29
Very good observations!

JWHVACR Wrote:
Yes, all was a bit strange then, but she was so old by the time Miriam and Aaron were having their problems, you would wonder why they were suddenly concerned.


:shocked:

Heck, Jim, she could've been 20 years younger than Moses. He was forty when he rescued Zipporah and her 6 sister from the bullies. That could make her 60+ when her father brought her and Moses' two sons to meet him in the wilderness.

I'll be 70 on my next birthday. D'ya think I'm too old to cause any problems?:P

rez

PS. The problem could have resulted from the prominence her father Jethro attained when he suggested the solution to Moses' problem. And, hey, how old was her father? and still going strong.

And as I pointed out above: Possibly 90 by the time Arron and Miriam were complaining... I hope you make that also!:D

JWHVACR Wrote:
And as I pointed out above: Possibly 90 by the time Arron and Miriam were complaining... I hope you make that also!:D


Soooo......?:huh:

My dad is 93 and still grinding his own flour to make his own bread, riding his bicycle and rowing his dingy and constantly inventing better ways to do stuff.

He just broke up with his girlfriend and maybe looking for a younger one (who knows:blush:) Recently he was talking about installing a hydroponic system in his bedroom to grow tomatoes in the Winter.....and the list goes on.

I hope I've got his genes! :thumbsup:

:whistle:

re: "...hydroponic system in his bedroom to grow tomatoes in the Winter..."

This is a common occurrence/practice in this neck of the woods (as well)...(.."tomatoes"...ha)

:whistle:

Resolute Wrote:

JWHVACR Wrote:
And as I pointed out above: Possibly 90 by the time Arron and Miriam were complaining... I hope you make that also!:D


Soooo......?:huh:

My dad is 93 and still grinding his own flour to make his own bread, riding his bicycle and rowing his dingy and constantly inventing better ways to do stuff.

He just broke up with his girlfriend and maybe looking for a younger one (who knows:blush:) Recently he was talking about installing a hydroponic system in his bedroom to grow tomatoes in the Winter.....and the list goes on.

I hope I've got his genes! :thumbsup:

:whistle:


Good afternoon sis rez:

Very interesting thread, thank you all for the new to me info still waiting for me to dig out :read:

I'm praying you do have his genes, but, does he have any younger brothers who ever visit vegas??? :whistle:

Come quickly Lord Jesus!!!

Love you ALL MUCHLY:grouphug::heartbeat:
sis

Well, y'all sure diverted from the subject, but I love it! Oh to be like Moses
(Deuteronomy 34:7): "When he died, Moses was a hundred and twenty years old, yet his eyes were still sharp and he still had all his natural functions."

I lost it with the eyes... not touching the rest of that verse. :friends:

JWHVACR Wrote:
Well, y'all sure diverted from the subject, but I love it! Oh to be like Moses
(Deuteronomy 34:7): "When he died, Moses was a hundred and twenty years old, yet his eyes were still sharp and he still had all his natural functions."

I lost it with the eyes... not touching the rest of that verse. :friends:


:rofl:

Ahhhh....you're sharp as a tack, Jim-bro!:ok:

llee Wrote:
Good afternoon sis rez: .....does he have any younger brothers who ever visit vegas??? :whistle:


Soooo sorry, his younger brother died 20 years ago. :(Not the same sort of critter.

I hope I didn't get HIS genes :shocked: :redface:

Love ya, sis Lee:heartbeat:

"He just broke up with his girlfriend and maybe looking for a younger one (who knows"

Wow, Res, your dad!

Shows me the need in man - humans - to unite as long as we can. Like Moses as in this thread.


:)Tessa
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